ok, so it is confession time. I feel overwhelmed by the questions some days. Most folks are just curious, don't know what else to ask and/or well meaning, but I feel defensive some days. It is hard to be confident in your decisions to others, when some days you are not confident yourself.
No, Patrick is not sleeping through the night
Yes, he does sleep in our bed part to most of the night
Yes, this is a decision that Ryan and I are BOTH ok with for now
No, we don't plan to have him sleep with us until he is 10
Yes, I am tired most of the time
Yes, my plan is to breastfeed a year or so depending on what Patrick decides
No, we aren't worried about doing solids yet, although he has had a taste of cereal this past week.
No, he doesn't need extra vitamins or food really, he gets all he needs from me
No, we don't let him Cry it Out (if you have heard him go from sound asleep to wailing as quickly as we have, you would understand)
Yes, Ryan is an awesome dad and a great support
No, I don't know what I am doing
Yes, I am learning as I go
No, I didn't read "it" in a book, I just do what feels right (and then constantly question myself!)
there it is, out in the open. whew.
Now, ask if you like and I will work on becoming more and more confident in my answers. Or perhaps just learn better smart a$$ remarks!
Update: Yes, I do have the right to change my mind on any of the above at any time! ;)